António José (ajose) wrote,
António José

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Tough questions.....

I'm still wondering who can I handle, in the most effective and useful way, the issue that was brought to me yesterday at Gabriel's school.

It's just a question of his behaviour in response (I'm pretty sure of that) of others (older) teasing him in order to get a reaction out of him.
The question is that I can not lett this whole issue just pass in blank.
And I must make a point so that in the future he won't just react this way and acts more wisely.

I can't just take away a toy or TV as this won't "punish" him enough.
I think the best way is just to ignore him, at key times and, at the same time, don't comply with superfelous things he asks for while he is "grounded".

Just let time passes and see how this all goes.

Today, before I left him on school I went through this whole issue, explaining to him that if others are rude to him and say nasty things to him, he is always better into going with an adult, at school, and explain what happened and ask for them to intervein and let he be alone with himself.
But part of the problem is that he is not capable of being apart the older ones but, yet, doesn't know how to deal with all the situations that arrise freom there....

Well, I'm almost out from work to go and get him and, then, head home.

And I do must (I keep repeating to myself) think on all this quite thoughrouly as I must be able to act in the best way in order for him to learn and gain useful experience from all this issue.

See you all latter, here in LJ land....

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